You're not the customer. You're not the product. You're the fuel.

Someone asked you to do something. It seemed normal. But something felt off and you couldn't say why.

Type. The act of typing is the commitment. Then scroll.

ASSET Valuable on their terms.
LEVER Your position is the tool.
HOST The environment they feed off.
FUEL Your cost is the operating model.
0 Positions that describe every arrangement
0 Questions to reveal your position in any ask
0 Seconds to structural clarity
Daily Examples of weaponized identity in the news

The same structure, scaled differently

False-flag recruits

Ukrainians recruited for false-flag arsons in Europe — told it was simple delivery work. They bore the cost. Someone else extracted the value. They were Fuel.

Acceptable losses

Farmers whose land was mined — called acceptable losses by strategists who never set foot on the soil. They generated the value. They were Fuel.

Your boss's opportunity

An "opportunity" that uses your reputation to legitimize a project you don't control. You bear the risk. They extract the credit. Same position. Different scale.

The question isn't whether this happens. It's which position you're occupying right now.

The Instrument

Five structural questions. No feelings. No judgment. Just who does what to whom.

Begin the interrogation.

Five questions. No advice afterward. Just the structural truth.

Four positions. Every arrangement has them.

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Sets Terms
ASSET The employee whose expertise is indispensable but whose authority is ornamental.
LEVER The friend whose social capital someone borrows to gain entry to a room.
Bears Cost
Extracts Value
FUEL The volunteer whose burnout is built into the org chart.
HOST The community leader whose legitimacy makes a program credible while the program drains their time.
Doesn't Set Terms

The pattern in action

Three real examples. Same 2x2 grid. Same five questions. The structure reveals itself.

Ukrainians recruited for false-flag arsons in Poland and Germany (2024)

FUEL
  • 1 Recruiter sets the terms
  • 2 Recruiter extracts the value
  • 3 Recruit bears the cost
  • 4 Recruit generates the value
  • 5 Recruit couldn't refuse

Your boss's "visibility opportunity"

FUEL
  • 1 Boss sets the terms
  • 2 Boss extracts the value
  • 3 You bear the cost
  • 4 You generate the value
  • 5 You couldn't refuse

EU expats whose bank accounts were frozen by nationality (2022)

LEVER
  • 1 State sets the terms
  • 2 State extracts the value
  • 3 Expats bear the cost
  • 4 Expats' citizenship is the value
  • 5 Couldn't refuse

Same structure. Different scale. Your gut already knew. Now you have the language.

Five questions you can't unlearn

After three uses, you'll hear an ask and your mind will map the structure before your mouth can say yes.

01

Q1. Who sets the terms?

Most people never ask this because the asker presents the terms as natural, not constructed.

02

Q2. Who bears the cost?

We assume costs are shared. They rarely are.

03

Q3. Who extracts the value?

Value doesn't distribute itself. Follow where it goes.

04

Q4. Who generates it?

The person who makes the value and the person who takes it are usually different people.

05

Q5. Could you have refused?

Consent isn't real when refusal has consequences you can't afford.

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Questions you'd ask if you could

Next time someone asks you something

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